Tuesday, March 5, 2013

The Empty Relationship


THE EMPTY RELATIONSHIP … 



   Love is in the air … is doing gaga over peoples face book, BBM and whats app status.
Do they really know what love is? Well, it depends on person to person. For some it is attraction, some finds physical pleasure while many of them just love because they need a companion to crave on and have the benefit of. On the other hand, very few are there who actually welcomes the pain and beautiful feeling of love to cherish their life.


  Love can only happen between two opposite individuals.
Answer to it remains a big question mark. Let us find a way...
It can be among two opposite gender friends and it can be between a mother-son or father-daughter or siblings too.
Love has no definition; neither has it had any limitations to stop.


    Today we are living in material and practical world.  The scenario is different now.  So far so good is hardly seen and if seen whether it will become successful is doubtful every time.  Nobody thinks of having a sustained relationship, they are fine even if their partner terminate the agreement of love. 

     For instance, college babies are immature when they choose a wrong person however; they are called as geeks and nerds if they do not have one partner (pattern of college life)
Definition of love has become very unrealistic these days. Nobody cares whether your partner loves you or not. They only care about their security and safety (hidden fact).

    Sometimes I feel like going back to the olden days where raj kapoor can be seen singing pyaar hua ikraar hua with nargis as well one can notice how shammi kapoor expresses his grievances to sadhana in dil ke zharoko me tujhko bithaake …. Those were the beautiful songs with meaning and perfect time picturised in the movie and so people of that time have cherished their memories and happiness with these songs. 
   
      Today, it has changed.  Movies are still source of entertainment but the entertainment part has been treasured so much that even Vidya Balan had to commit in one of her movies that entertainment rocks! Relationship has become the empty castle of love where anybody can enter and exit without any concern. Breakups and patch ups are in trend. Bollywood plays a very important role in encouraging youngsters, no offence made as such. People are bound to get attracted to what is not good. Initially, love dances all over you and slowly but gradually you get distracted with the terms and conditions (ye nai karna, who nahi karna, jaanu ye, jaanu who----Period!)
   
   All the best to those who are in a steady relationship and good luck (try your luck even harder) to those who just experienced a breakup.