How you should be learning to handle relationships - Do not become too friendly with anyone (not even your immediate relatives, they are most dangerous). They take undue advantage of your weaknesses and make you the culprit.
How to handle relationships?
1. Do not be too friendly with anybody (especially when you doubt someone)
2. Just be the random person for them, do not be the scapegoat for anybody.
3. Avoid sending them personal messages (oh my god, some of them do not understand your language and interpret it differently)
4. Do not target them on social media in any means.
5. Have the pleasure of getting blocked by the morons but do not block anybody.
6. Last but not the least, accept your mistake and believe in Karma.
How to set yourself free from them?
1. Ignore them. Initially it will be too difficult to ignore them as you may start getting angry hearing their names or having their presence around you. This is just a phase. Do not increase your blood pressure level. They won't suffer but your health will. Just relax and meditate.
2. Keep yourselves busy in activities that makes you happy. You never know someday your extra curricular activity will make your insanely famous.
3. Avoid thinking about them. Ah, that too difficult if they have hurt you and made you but declared you the culprit. Conspiracy!
Just do not think, think about yourself, your loved ones (but what if that person was your loved one once??? - forgive and forget. Do forgiveness. Ask them for forgiveness of your mistakes by simply closing your eyes and also forgive them for their mistakes).
4. Now you are really entering the difficult phase of this journey of abandoning by people. So if they abandon you, make new friends or continue with your bunch of friends. After all, its said that friends are more than family. Its proved in my case always be it my mother's funeral or my marriage or anytime I need them. They are just one phone call away!
5. Believe me, nobody things wrong or bad for you. You think about it often and end up losing your own patience. Let then live (leave) too.
If you have failed in a relationship and do not want that person back in your life, stop thinking about him/her. We all make multiple mistakes and we are all child of God. If you make mistake, say sorry or ask for apology and do not keep any burden for your last day of life. This is the most difficult pain you will have.
How relationships work?
Talk talk and talk!
Two people should come together and talk with each other to clear their differences rather than communicating through someone who is having hidden agenda behind your fight. Talk like two mature people and sort out the differences. We often fail to do that due to many emotional reasons and sometimes its is psychological too. Decide if you want to stay in a relationship with that person or move on. It could with your partner, spouse, siblings, in laws, co sis, friends, colleagues and every person who is attached or related to you.
All the best. Do share your experiences with us in our comment section.
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